Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Will self-defence work for a girl being raped?


Since the Delhi gang-rape, so far 18 people have asked me -  
" Will self-defence techniques actually work
for an 'average girl' against a group of men.?! "
My answer is - 

" Those who keep asking "Will this work?!" die without finding out whether it will."
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Learning provides you the tools.
Practice makes you an expert.
Pushing yourself out of the comfort-zone makes you superior.
and above all..
Introspection makes you realistic

That's too true of all arts. The same hierarchy applies to learning to fight also. So, every input in learning has an output in application ...
... which is reasonably proportionate. Whether its Singing, Tennis, Medicine, Drama, Astronomy or KravMaga. If you have a natural aptitude to that field, the progress will be better than your peers.



Decide at which level you want to play..and put in the required effort .

You will find out "Will this work?!". .


Having pissed you off by stating "One can't expect results without effort" let me now try and please you, by giving you ... 
The Secret of Street fight
DON'T TRY TO DOMINATE THE ATTACKER. 
TRY TO DOMINATE THE SITUATION.

For a girl fighting men, it means running around, throwing things at him, screaming at the top of the voice. If he is on you, claw, bite and kick. Go for the eyes and groin, which are soft parts.
Will that stop the rapist? 
No it may not. 
If you are imagining the rapist will be knocked out cold, you are wrong.
At the most.. if the girl is lucky, the rapist may be temporarily blinded. Or he may be holding his groin in pain.

If that doesn't happen, at-least he may hesitate to come near again. 
Delaying is also tactically useful, since most of the rapists don't want to get caught.
The girl's chances are better now. She can again start screaming and running away.

Hmm.. so, now you are asking me,
" What if there are 3 people attacking the girl?" 
" What if the rapist punched the girl on the nose and she faints.?"
My answer to persistent cynics, who cerebralize everything is -
" Well...in that case..
no girl needs to learn martial arts..
because it looks like
she is going to get raped, 
anyway ."

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Videos -
KRAV-MAGA FOR WOMEN - CHENNAI, INDIA
KravMaga - safety tips for Children & Women - NDTV Hindu Chennai
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SreeRam is a KravMaga self-defence instructor at Chennai, South India. He teaches Civilians, Chennai City Police and Security.
SreeRam has started W.A.H.R (Women against harassment & Rape)an NGO devoted to increase personal safety awareness amongst women and equip them to handle sexual harassment at public and work places.
SreeRam conducts KravMaga personal safety and self-defense workshops at corporates, especially IT/BPO companies where many women work late. He has also conducted workshops, for rural women.
On 8th March 2012 ( International Women's Day) KravMaga SreeRam released a small handy booklet for women titled " 10A-s of Personal Safety for Women" 
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Monday, December 17, 2012

Self-defence Workshops for Women - Part I

Self-defense Workshops for Women - Part I
I am sharing the learning from the many workshops for women on 'self-defense and personal safety', I conducted in the last 4 years. Please don’t hesitate to comment if you feel I am wrong. I also look forward to your suggestions to improve the content and presentation.

What I learnt during these workshops to women -
(Disclaimer - The following are my own broad observations. Of course some women are exceptions; but they are very few.)

1. In daily life, women face more problems than we men can ever visualize or comprehend.
Women face persistent stares, uninitiated talks, lewd comments, unwanted touch, vulgar taps and so many unsavoury acts which we men don't experience.
So, they should be keener on learning martial-arts than men. Right?
No, it’s wrong.
Oh! Why?  Because...



Woman power ! 
2. Women don't see themselves beating up men
Even though women acknowledge they face constant harassments, they assume they can't handle it at a physical level.
They do participate in the workshops with enthusiasm and do the techniques with gusto; but I get the feeling they are saying to themselves 'OK.. that's was useful and fun.. but.. will I ever be able to beat up a man so easily!?"
Why are women so sceptical? Because...

3. Women are afraid, since the average man is bigger and aggressive than the average woman.
The uneasy fear is felt by men, only when facing a bigger or more aggressive man. For the woman, EVERY man is bigger and aggressive than her!
It took some time for me, to realize the seriousness of this issue.
I initially assumed that if I address this fear, more women will opt for martial-arts.
It didn't happen. Why? Because...

4. Women don't visualize themselves as martial arts practitioners
By nature women are put-off by physical violence. So even if they accept that they can actually do something in a crisis, they are not keen to learn martial-arts in a consistently prolonged manner.

Some women assume wrongly that they will become muscular and manly. Many women also are apprehensive of getting hurt in practice, especially on the face.
Kali - role model ?
Even though I get lots of enquiries from women, I don’t actually see them following it up. Probably they made the enquiry in a burst of anger after an ugly episode with some man. Once the anger cooled down, the priorities naturally change.
So these are my major observations. I have realized that taking KravMaga to women is a challenge.
After reading and discussing with women (some of them are experienced martial arts teachers), I tweaked the teaching content and methodology to women. I will share that in a future blog


Related articles -  
Videos -
KRAV-MAGA FOR WOMEN - CHENNAI, INDIA
KravMaga - safety tips for Children & Women - NDTV Hindu Chennai
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SreeRam is a KravMaga self-defence instructor at Chennai, South India. He teaches Civilians, Chennai City Police and Security.
SreeRam has started W.A.H.R (Women against harassment & Rape)an NGO devoted to increase personal safety awareness amongst women and equip them to handle sexual harassment at public and work places.
SreeRam conducts KravMaga personal safety and self-defense workshops at corporates, especially IT/BPO companies where many women work late. He has also conducted workshops, for rural women.
On 8th March 2012 ( International Women's Day) KravMaga SreeRam released a small handy booklet for women titled " 10A-s of Personal Safety for Women" 
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Mobile - 0-934 000 66 00 , Email - kravmaga.chennai@gmail.com
Chennai Site - https://sites.google.com/site/kravmagachennai/
KRAVMAGA BLOG -  http://kravmaga-chennai.blogspot.com/
LINKED IN -  http://in.linkedin.com/in/ksr960
FACEBOOK - http://bit.ly/KravMagaChennai
YOUTUBE - http://www.youtube.com/user/KravMagaSreeRam
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TWEET - @kravMagaSreeRam

Monday, December 3, 2012

The police & fake encounters - Tip of the iceberg

The Dynamics of Police encounters - Part III

After the recent police encounter in TamilNadu, furious debates are happening in every media channel; in some of which I also participated.
Instead of analysing this specific encounter and getting into shallow arguments, I want to talk on the larger aspects like -
  •       How does the public view Police?
  •      The ills of Indian police
  •         How equipped / skilled are our police?        
  •      Infrastructure & Training
  •      Why encounters happen?
  •      What the public wants and how it can be realized?

How does the public view police?

Sheep dog and wolf analogy - According to Geoff Thompson , Police are the 'Sheep dog'. which protects the 'Innocent herd of Sheep". The criminal is akin to the "Wolf"
When there is no threat; the sheep hate the presence of the sheep-dog... He is bossing around and intimidating... The moment the Wolf appears on the scene, the sheep loudly bleat for the sheep-dog to come to their rescue.
In essence, a citizen recognizes the utility of police only when he is under threat. Rest of the time he dislikes any interaction with khaki.

 In fact the movies takes great delight in ridiculing police as comical bums or criticizing them as corrupt inhuman robots. On the other extreme are the Vijaykanth type superhuman police, mouthing punch dialogues while catching bullets fired at him.  

Portrayal of police - 2 extremes 

Why the public perspective of police is so negatively twisted.

The ills of Indian police

The police to Public ratio is abysmal in India. On top of it, many police personnel are not utilized for law-enforcement. They are errand boys to officers' families. One senior officer was telling me he had 18 men working in his house when he was a district SP!
Law and Order police are pulled from regular duty for VIP bandobast. One sees VIP convoys with scores of policemen apart from the hundreds lining the road. Like many government departments the resources are used for their own benefit first. So understaffing is a major issue.
Under-staffing pre-supposes over-working. Most of the police personnel suffer from fatigue. On top of physical fatigue, they suffer from mental stress due to abuse by superiors, no interaction with family, sense of frustration caused by corruption. Add to it alcohol abuse, lack of fitness programs and exposure to elements.
A recipe for inefficiency!

How equipped / skilled are our police?

In Tamil a popular observation is " போக்கத்தவனுக்கு போலீஸ் வேலை .. வக்கத்தவனுக்கு வாத்தியார் வேலை . “ “Police job is for the troublesome who lack education and skills ... Teaching job is for the educated without any skills". Even though this is not completely true, there is some validity when we look at the kind of people taking up police and teacher jobs.
A police man is not recruited on the basis of IQ, but on physical attributes.
After he joins police the training regimen successfully snuffs out any proactive intelligence he had; he is conditioned to obey orders whether he likes it or not.
Then he is posted in a station. In a short period he realizes the system is corrupt and any values he may harbor will only cause friction with his superiors and colleagues. He faces the choice “Either be part of the system and claim your share of the spoils or get sidelined to a punishment post."


Infrastructure & Training

A classic case is Computerization, which is carried out in a crude manner; without any thoughts on integration or work-flow management. Once I saw 400 new PCs in one office, with only pre-installed MS-office and all operating as stand-alones!
Most of the officers are afraid of experimenting with technology
, because if their attempt fails they stand accountable. So, putting aside any fresh initiatives, they opt for no-brainer decisions, which have safe precedents. No wonder, most of the modernization funds given to police is spent on buying vehicles and building new offices.
Even if an officer shows pro-active initiative
, he may not remain long enough in that post to see it through. Constant transfers ordered by short-sighted superiors and political bosses frustrate any attempt to build a sustainable and efficient process. The replacing officer who comes to the post will have different ideas and priorities.
The net result is, Indian police's infrastructure, especially technology is mostly cosmetic and under-utilized.


Talking about training of recruits, the basic training is out-dated. Once on the job, there are no systemic attempts to update skills. Even the sporadic training exercises are perfunctory and the results are not compared with the objectives. It’s mostly on paper.
Since I try to help the police in un-armed combat and cyber-crime prevention, I am constantly surprised by the administrative apathy. I poured out my frustration to a senior officer," Your department has just 2 problems - too much of power and too much of ignorance. It’s a bad combination! “. He nodded with a sympathetic smile.

This is the overall pathetic scenario. Having this in mind let’s look at ‘encounter’ deaths

Why encounters happen?

Encounters are political decisions. They are not just police decisions.
Even if the police want an encounter, it cannot happen without the tacit approval of the political bosses.
I also noticed that police will turn a blind eye and tolerate crimes which happen in closed rooms, away from the eye of the larger public. They will even demand a share in the spoils. But when a crime happens in full public glare threatening their credibility, police swing into action to regain their image.
The human rights supporters constantly demand the police to leave it to the judiciary
. How naive! An encounter cannot happen without taking into confidence local judiciary, politicians, community leaders and in many cases even the media.
A police officer is NOT carrying out an encounter, since he is a sadomasochistic pervert.
He is forced to do that due to various compulsions, which may be beyond law and order issues.
Killing a life in cold blood is not an easy decision and it is taken reluctantly under extreme duress.
The officer is also putting his career on the block; he knows if the political bosses are replaced, he will be the scapegoat.

Rajasthan IG arrested for encounter

What the public wants and how it can be realized?

The problem for the police is that the criminal is hidden amongst the public, whom he is protecting. He has to weed the criminal out and substantiate his actions to the critical scrutiny of media fed public.
In contrast the army has an easier job, since the enemy is well identified. Eliminating an enemy is not subject to constant public debate. Concepts like patriotism also make army killings actually look good and they are hailed as 'Saviors of the nation.'
The police job is mostly ‘Control’... Not 'offensive".
He is expected to use force with great restraint. They are advised to use force in proportionate to threat. Who will measure the threat and response in a crisis!
This ideal scenario of a benign police keeping a fatherly eye on the society can be realized only when all democratic institutions operate without prejudice - The politician, The Bureaucracy, The Judiciary, The Media and above all the Public.
One can demand police to stop taking law in their own hands, when the other pillars of democracy play straight.
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Previous posts on this series on police encounters-
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SreeRam is a KravMaga self-defence instructor at Chennai, South India. He teaches Civilians, Chennai City Police and Security.
SreeRam has started W.A.H.R (Women against harassment & Rape)an NGO devoted to increase personal safety awareness amongst women and equip them to handle sexual harassment at public and work places.
SreeRam conducts KravMaga personal safety and self-defense workshops at corporates, especially IT/BPO companies where many women work late. He has also conducted workshops, for rural women.
On 8th March 2012 ( International Women's Day) KravMaga SreeRam released a small handy booklet for women titled " 10A-s of Personal Safety for Women"
...............................................................
Mobile - 0-934 000 66 00 , Email - kravmaga.chennai@gmail.com
Chennai Site - https://sites.google.com/site/kravmagachennai/
KRAVMAGA BLOG -  http://kravmaga-chennai.blogspot.com/
LINKED IN -  http://in.linkedin.com/in/ksr960
FACEBOOK - http://bit.ly/KravMagaChennai
YOUTUBE - http://www.youtube.com/user/KravMagaSreeRam
GOOGLE PROFILE - http://www.google.com/profiles/ksr960
TWEET - @kravMagaSreeRam
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